Dear LIB Readers: How do I manage this wife thats now a thorn in my flesh?

. From a male LIB reader
The purpose of my writing this now is to seek advise, else my
mind imaginations and anger within can make me make my
unwise wife pay dearly. I love my wife dearly and I cannot
say of her, but she's always loving when we are on good
terms. My wife pride has made her do things and she still
feels ok with. I thank God she's not even a graduate for
now, else no one would have been able to control her pride.
Naturally she's always bitter, but I try to be in her good
books, but lately, I found out whenever we have an argument
and disagreement she makes food for herself alone, so for
like two weeks, a housewife living with her husband has not
asked him what to eat for breakfast whatsoever. How do I
pay this kind of woman back, I have so many imaginations
and ideas popping up in my mind, how best to deal with her
everlasting, though, this her singular act can never make me
forgive her, because, for a woman to feel its her right not to
make food in whichever guise, to me its an unforgiving sin, I
know wives shouldn't do that, but ill mannered ones can do,
the price such should have paid should not only be divorce,
but..Shes presently pregnant for me, our first child, I dont
even know if I am cursing or something, but I dont wish her
better sha....I can already see the future from this little
acts.
The few people I have asked what if they are the ones have
said their minds, I want extensive opinions, hence my
writeup. Also, to say this, she's a salary earner and I am
into business, so sometimes, money is hooked up on business,
like earlier this year, I expended all money on different
things and I also bought two pieces of land, instead of
getting one piece of land, in both our names (Mr $ Mrs) and
I told her there after, if I will have food on the table as the
rest money is tied up on other businesses that will bring
money, she agreed, if not, I would have bought one plot and
have big money to use till money will come in from my other
investments, but that's my albatross now, as she has used
the fact I dont have money presently to feel assuming,
feed herself and make me feel like shit, hoping for when I
will eat from the dustbin..What if it were you reading me
now?

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